Dear Mr JAGPAL
We found your message, we are two Jagpal kuriya who were searching for other lost brothers and sisters! We are from London (originally Distt:Ludhiana), where are you from? Are there any other Jagpals out there??????????????????????????? Luv Jag and Pal!

Waz up people? Hey I'm 13 years old and I live in Wisconsin. I just moved here from New York 74 street if ya know what I'm sayin' It's cool up in here. I just wanted to say cool site!!!!!!

hey whasssup my peeps....I'm strictly talking to the Jatts in the house....where are you guys.....in the motherland (Punjab)? Cause I'm in the U S of A, New York to be exact and I just happened to come across the site and I saw all these comments and talk from Jats. And since there aren't that many of them here where I am, I figured I would do some chilling with you guys.....so how's it goin? If there's any one that wishes to chat---let's get it on......1st up - what's your name/ where you live and what line of work are you in? By the way my name is Jasmine...so let me hear some noise and when I log on again I hope to hear from someone interested in conversing with an all American but 100% Jatti bye for now ya'll

Raju = dirty pendu

hey this is a jagpal if there is any other jagpal who just want to have a a good old chatter send a message

Hai Sandy here,

Please, every body, stop using this site for name calling and personals. Please try to learn how you can best use this gift of God (through humans). Try to learn about Punjabis, eachothers, good thoughts and other material which may make difference in others lives and may drag you back to this site just for finding something good in life, good sentiments, good ideas to others just like the people use to sit in Gali Mohalla and talk about sharing life, daily problems and values and getting what hoped from all this.

Dear XXXXXXXXXXX

You have to make it clear to your husband that YOU come FIRST. All relationships such a Mom, Dad, Brother, Sister will survive the biggest of arguements and insults because its a blood relationship.. BUT if a husband and wife argue it can do lasting damage. If your husband treats you with respect other people have no choice but to treat you the same. If your husband treats you bad there is no stopping other people (especially mother in law) treating you like crap. Remember as the daughter in law you hold the house together. For goodness sake you are the MOTHER of their grandchildren. If they treat you like rubbish then it means they regard their grandchildren as even less. The important thing is to try and get your husband on your side. Tell him you always try your best and work the hardest so you should be recognised as having value. Stand up for what you want and try to discuss issues with your husband in private if you can. Your husband should realise that your happiness is his happiness. The MOST important thing is:

IF ANYONE INSULTS YOU THEY ARE ALSO INSULTING YOUR HUSBAND. IF THEY DISRESPECT YOU THEY ARE ALSO DISRESPECTING YOUR HUSBAND

Convince your husband of this statement and then shove it down your mother in laws throat. Once in a while do things that make YOU happy even its simple as taking a break with a cup of TV and watching a movie without being interupted. Live your life for yourself once in a while. Can I suggest you get a break from the in-laws and the kids by going out for a 10 minute walk with your husband maybe twice a week. Work on your relationship with your husband because that is the most important one. Why make 60 years of your life a misery just to keep your in-laws happy for only the next 10 years. Its hard to accept a marriage we are not happy with when we dreamed of so much when we were girls. Its a bitter pill to swallow but hang in there. We women are made of strong stuff and you seem like a person who has a lot of inner strength.

Has anyone nailed who this crazy, rude and utterly twisted individual calling himself the likes of 'Jat Assasin' is??? Apparently he's got other aliases as well. I just want to say 'Shut up and stop talking out of your rear end'.

This is a message to Raju about his message on June 2,

I totally agree with Jessy Gill(above your message).

Dear Nil,

Don't try to impress this guy, just go up to him and ask him out like anyone else would.

If you try to impress him he might think what is this girl trying to do?
That is if you get the pronounciation wrong!

HI!
How are you people?
I am Indian but not Pujnabi. I relly like Punjabi people. I have a coworker who is Punjabi and I kind a have a crush on him. Let me know how do I get his attention. How do I introduce myself to him in Punjbi language.

Thank you

Sharan asked whats it like in TX....acha...i say tu apei arkei dekh la! This place as theysay is the BOMB!

TX has a new name.....SARDARISTAN!

hey u can email me by clicking on my name

Multiple xxxxxxx


if you are for real, i feel very sorry for you and all i say is try to get out of this situation. Are there no organiztions, that specialize in looking after single mothers. Dismiss what your mother in law law says, just think of her as a smelly old tart. Remember your children are your utmost concern and the negative vibes circulating will only have a disconcerting effect.


Keep your faith and also remember god is on your side.

i HAVE AN ISSUE: i GOT MARRIED 8 YEARS AGO ARRANGED MARRIAGE, i BEGED MY PARENTS NOT TO DO BUT THEY STILL WENT AHEAD WITH IT. i KNOW HAVE KIDS. i GET VERY LONLY AND DO NOT TELL ANYONE. MY PARENTS LIVE IN ANOTHER COUNTRY. i SEE THEM AFTER 2 OR 3 YEARS. THE THING THAT REALLY GETS ME IS THAT HOW ALL OF THESE MOTHER IN LAWS SAY THAT THEY WILL TREAT THERE DAUGHTER IN LAW JUST LIKE THERE OWN DAUGHTER. BIG LIE MY ONE LOVES IT IF ME AND MY HUSBAND ARGUES. I AM SO UNHAPPY I DO NOT KNOW WHAT TO DO. I HAVE KIDS. MY PARENTS DO NOT LIVE HERE I HAVE NO SUPPORT.

hello manmeet....we are from jodhan- mansoorie,dist ludhiana.proud to be grewal.the whole of ludhiana is encircled by at least 26 "pinds" of grewals!happy to hear from all punjabis!

Raju kaju & eveyone else on this room,
I don't think anyone giz a shit what your religion is or how many people you converted to whaterever.

Personally I think this fellow wrote this just to stir everyone up (he definately did that).

We are punjabis, period. Religion does not matter. We/our ansectors are from the region around the 5 rivers. If you study your history books you will notice that religion wise Hinduism existed prior to Islam and Sikhism. Islam came with the Mughals. The eldest son in every hindu family was dedicated to become sardar to keep the mughals at bay. That gave rise to a new religion. What brought more converts to this new religion (belief system if you will) was the disdain with the brahmins/fuedal systems

So anyway what gives us our shared identities is the fact that we speak the same language, culture etc. Also ethnically/racially we are the same for the most part.

Let's focus on the real shit ya'll. Enough of the bakquas

I agree with Fateh singh, also I am not a violent person. People like this so called raju put messages up like that because they have little else to do in their little minds.
By the way Fateh Bhaji whats it like livivng in Texas, I always thought that Texas was pretty rough??
Hey you sound pretty cool so if you want to chat then post up your e-mail address. OKAY.
p.s high five right back at ya
sharan kaur

Hi everyone out there,
i am pretty new here.but i liked this site very much.i want to add a punjabi share here
"tu istaran kyon nahin ban jandi, jiven koi moohjawani kavita hundi hai.tainu har vele yaad kyon karna panda hai."
rab rakha.

Hi all,
From Vill:Begowal, Dist. Ludhiana, Calling all Mangats or other people originally from that area.
Proud to Be Mangat, Proud to be Jat, Proud to be Punjabi. Please E-mail me.
Manmeet

Raju

I have always believed that there is a reason for us to be born into a particular religion. God sent his messengers at various times to Earth to eradicate oppressors and cruelty to teach us peace and tolerance. Sikhism is one of the most practical religions of our times, besides touching on issues for every day practical living it also teaches equality of the sexes and of course respect for all other religions.

It is not a feat, nor a great achievement to encourage one to renounce his/her religion nor is it of any spiritual benefit to persuade one to take on another religion. All religions preach the same commandments and the sad thing is that along the way through the years there have been many misinterpretations and misrepresentations made.

Anyway, each to his own and one should not gloat over the fact that he/she has converted so many to such a religion or hint at the sensitivities of the people in this manner. Raju praji must realise that this is the very type of talk that has brought about wars between friends and neighbours.

All said and done, what good can I do for another religion if I couldnt even relate to my own?

Kuldeep Kaur

Punjabi veero,
Is there anybody who love punjabi poetry? Or you are a punjabi poet ,please let me know.
Love
Mirza

specially to jessy gill. i liked your answer to raju. although this site is for punjabi's and not for particular religion but people like raju are spoiling the"MAHOOL"(atmosphere) of this punjabi site. i am also punjabi and love my mother tounge very much.

N.Mirza

u'r absolutely right! love and respect for all humanity is the ultimate message in all the religions. sad enough that is a concept many don't understand.

love
sunny : )

kee haal aa apaan da
kithay tur gay o saray
o koi haga wa?

Wus up guys?Why are you fighting about being Hindu Sikh or Muslim.If you try to understand every religion teach us to love and respect the humanity.Am i right or wrong?

Raju needs his butt kicked by a Texan Jatt Sardar!

HI 5 to all the Sikhs in the world!

Fateh!

Kise ne sannu bhejiya hai e sandesha.
Parho te sukh paayo.

FOR GOOD LUCK AND GOOD LIFE.
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Do not keep this message. The totem must leave your hands in 96 hours.
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2. Memorize your favorite poem.
3. Don't believe all you hear, spend all you have or sleep all you
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4. When you say, "I love you," mean it.
5. When you say, "I'm sorry," look the person in the eye.
6. Be engaged at least six months before you get married.
7. Believe in love at first sight.
8. Never laugh at anyone's dreams. People who don't have dreams don't
have much.
9. Love deeply and passionately. You might get hurt but it's the only
way to live life completely.
10. In disagreements, fight fairly. No name calling.
11. Don't judge people by their relatives.
12. Talk slowly but think quickly.
13. When someone asks you a question you don't want to answer, smile and
ask, "Why do you want to know?"
14. Remember that great love and great achievements involve great risk.
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create a tranquil harmonious home.
29. In disagreements with loved ones, deal with the current situation.
Don't bring up the past.
30. Read between the lines.
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Indian elephant dies mourning dead companion

Friends
You may have witnessed love stories and sacrifices for love but this story from North Indian city of Lucknow in Uttar Pradesh state which was broadcast on BBC radio on Wednesday, said that an elephant has starved herself to death, mourning her companion who died giving birth last month.

Few months ago, Champakali named female Elephant was expecting a baby and Damini was brought up from another location to nurse her.
Unfortunately Champakali suffered and died for ill health on 9th April.
Her friend Damini cried with big tears during her friend's sickness and also stopped eating.
Officials separated Damini to another enclosure after Champakali's death and apparently the pain of separation affected to Damini's heart.

The special attendent to elephants at this Zoo, Kamaal Khan almost cried when he reported to BBC Radio correspondent. He said that elephants hearts are broken when they are separated from their close friends or beloved ones.

The officials said that for the last three-and-a-half weeks, the elephant -- Damini -- had wept in her enclosure, refusing to move, eat or drink.

Vets had attempted to feed her artificially with glucose, saline and vitamins, and they'd set up fans to protect her from the blazing heat.

But they said all this had failed in the face of Damini's intense grief.

Raju: I am sure you are happy to be a Mussalman with your split dick, but while you are busy converting Hindus and Sikhs into Muslims, and I'll bet you will say that you converted hundreds of thousands, Muslims are getting converted into Christians, eating pork and drinking alcohol secretly, and raping their servants.

And by the way, what's a Mussalman doing with a Hindu name?

dear pujabi,
hey wuss up?well i just wanna say i'm happy to be a muslim,and i converted my friends to muslims,before they were sikhs.i'm proud to have muslim friends.should i make other hindus and sikhs muslims too?