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By Anonymous on Friday, September 01, 2006 - 9:51 pm:

How about if a Sikh guy fell in love with a Christian girl. How would this be accepted in the sikh community? Could a marriage be arranged?


By Jasrina on Monday, February 07, 2005 - 8:39 am:

sat sri akal shezdarisikh...hey beware of your mouth!!!doesnt me muslim sell our body to guyz..cant you see punjaban kuri pretend to b english women???!! shamed of u!!i dare to sat that coz my boy fren is punjabi munda and he is not thinking like you!! u rr so rude..sometimes i can see that u r very proud born asa a sikh guy!!! what is the differences between our religion.u r egoes!!!allah also made human to build ths country as good as we can but u??? destroy the rishtaa between muslim and sikhs. as i know my sikh frens r good and never scolded whatever i do..i hope sikh and muslim can be a good frens one day.juz think of it.


By linda on Saturday, February 05, 2005 - 10:45 pm:

chakle phade
kanu ho
manu theeek
hhaaaa/jst kidding.about that my problem is that i want to get as many items of harry potter as i could but my parents donot allow me.


By Anonymous on Saturday, January 01, 2005 - 1:37 pm:

aman wat culture are u speaking about??? ur a sikh hes a hindu...so whos culture will u be trying to understand, his or urs...its quite obvious why u dont fit in with his friends, its becuase they consider u an outsider either because ur a sikh or because ur dating a hindu man...if u want to learn about culture try learning about ur religion, it has everything u need to no in there, its 500 years of history...try visiting a sikh museum or a gurdwara, but u probably wont do that right since u dont even no that sikhs are not supposed to be dating hindus...sikhism was created because of opposition to hindus and muslims, beacuse of the hindu caste system and the way muslims treated ppl of other religions and women...sikhs tryed there best to protect these ppl...too bad the only thanx ur forefathers get is to witness wat they tryed so hard to create and maintain be wasted away...

btw im not a old man and i dont have a turban but i know an respect my religion too the fullest...i have taken the time to learn my religion that is why i respect its beauty...

i am 19yrs old, born in an living in uk...


By Punjabi girl on Friday, November 05, 2004 - 1:08 pm:

Indian friends will stay with you? hahaha right. They will stay with you only as long as you have something they want. They are so greedy and the worst backstabbers of any race.


By Meet on Friday, November 05, 2004 - 7:58 am:

Aman I think u should try to learn your indian culture. All the people I have met here like who are not Indians they don't have any kind values for you and yourr.. But believe when u really need somebody to help u out in any kind of situation then u can get that from your own community people only not from the Americans. They r not going to stay with you forever but ur Indian friends will be there for u.

I am telling u from my own personal experience.


By Aman on Sunday, October 03, 2004 - 7:16 am:

hi, i just wanna know opinions of other people. well i'm sikh. i came to the US at a young age so dont know much about my punjabi culture or religion, even tho my family is extrememly cultural and religious. i just dotn seem to fit in the indian community for some reason. my b/f is hindu and majority of his friends are indian and all of my friends are american. whenever i'm with him and his friends i feel like such a outsider. should i be trying to learn my culture?


By shezdharisikh on Monday, September 27, 2004 - 12:03 am:

Hello to everyone out there.
I am the khatri punjabi guy. I am clean shaven but regard my self shezdhari sikh. I love my religion very much b,coz it donot told the hate in ur heart among others. Marrying to a muslim is sin accroding to our religion. b,coz muslims are full of hate in there heart towards the rest of the world. guru hargobind singh rightly told that if muslim take the outh of allah for one lac time after that we donot have to trust on them. they are nothing more than the hate machine. muslim just want to increase there population by producing the number of childers and converting others, Muslim has given nothing to this world tell five muslims who discover any good think for this world or who had done somethink good in the field of science or technology. they are just born to produce children, and in there religion the woman has the place of whore. They treat the other religion woman as a whore or slut. they even sell there wives thats why they marry to 2 or 3 wives so they can earn money from them by selling there body. sikh girl u r born in such a great families . and u r going out with these types of bastards there are lot of punjabi guys out there jatt, rajput, khatri which belongs to ur own religion and respect ur religion and ur feeling. any one want to mail me mail me

It is Sahajdhari please.

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By JATT on Saturday, September 18, 2004 - 2:11 am:

my advise 4 us sikh boys out DER.. is •••• paki girls and run away 2 ur wifes!!


By SJ on Tuesday, June 29, 2004 - 11:01 am:

It's ok to marry a muslim, but first consider how you want to raise your children


I am a sikh girl madly in love with a muslim boy. He is the perfect man and will one day be a perfect husband and father. Although we both want to spend the rest of our lives and have an amazing relationship, we recently chose to end our relationship.

The reason was simple, although we both wanted to get married and neither one of us wanted the other to convert, we couldn't agree on how to raise our children. My boyfriend wanted to raise them as muslim's whereas I wanted them to grow up and learn and respect both religions. However my boyfriend brought up a valid poing: The sikh religion and muslim religion contradict each other on various points and would thus result in confusion for our children.

So as of now we have decided to go our seperate ways, although we still dearly love each other.

If anyone out there has been in a similar situation, please write back with your experiences. Or if someone know's how we could possibly save our relationship, any advice would be appreciate.

Sincerely SJ


By Anonymous on Wednesday, April 28, 2004 - 7:07 pm:

Hi there. Well I don't really know about your culture. But I do go to Gurdwara to pray. I can speak and understand Punjabi...not that much though! I've alwayz hear lotz of stories bout corrupted Punjabis. But that doesn't really matter 2 me. I'm crazily in luv wit tiz Punjabi guy. But he didn't take mi seriously and played mi off. Ya noe....m willing 2 b convert 2 Punjabi! Then another Punjabi guy came in2 mi life. He too played mi off. I juz dun understand....y Punjabi guyz f*** around wit girls from different races of girls but when it comes to marriage they'll only settle down wit Punjabans?! Y can't they accept non-Punjabi girls??


By akash on Tuesday, February 24, 2004 - 11:24 pm:

varri versy khatan gya see khat kay lay anada khan je boli pasand nahi aye tain phar lao mera •••


By Anonymous (192.85.50.2) on Thursday, January 01, 2004 - 12:29 am:

Help me please.

I am in love with the most wonderful woman I have ever met.
When I look at her I melt, I love sitting talking to her and I love everything about her.
I would marry her now this second and give her a very charmed life, I love and respect her, and I respect her opinions and whatever choices she ever made I would stand by her side.
She is moral and sincere and extremely beautiful, both inside and outside.

The problem is I am a white English man and she is a Sikh her caste is Jatt.
I would do anything for her and I mean anything I would convert to Sikh ANYTHING!!!!

I think she loves me I am unsure, I also think her mum would accept it but the rest of her family won’t and would maybe even outcast her. She doesn’t believe that people should be divided yet she will want to make her family happy 1st before her own happiness. I love her I am in love with her.

I come from a good close successful family background we are the same type of class, and she would be welcomed with open arms from my side of the family and she would never be asked to change her religion.

I really, really love her.


By Anonymous (67.36.42.212) on Wednesday, December 03, 2003 - 11:09 am:

hello,
i am facing a really big problem and thats it i'm deeply in love with a sikh girl but i am a muslim i am willing to do anything to get her she loves me to but the only thing which is creating a problem is our different cast and above all i am not a punjabi too. please help me out.


By J on Thursday, May 29, 2003 - 3:00 am:

ok, i am a sikh jatt, and i agree with alot of people when they say it is becoming hard to find decent sikh gals and boys out there. the problem with sikhs and asians these days is that they like to have fun and be reckless now, which is fine, but they dont see the long term big picture. wat they do now will come back to them in the future. i, as alll people, dream of marrying my perfect wife, i know the gal i settle down with is going to be perfect in her own way, but, getting to find that gal is becoming near impossible these days, and i am sure it is the same for you gals. i mean, i have been a decent guy as far as i know, and i have a good family upbringing, i got a good career and very good looking, y should there not be a female like that out there?!?! i think the disapline is lacking alot these days in the young asians.
let me know wat u lot think


By JATTI (212.137.57.41) on Friday, February 07, 2003 - 3:09 am:

Jedi Master Yodha,
U hypocrite, u demand a pure Jatti, u pure yourself???????????????????????????????? heah tell us first.


By Jedi Master Yoda (62.254.0.11) on Sunday, January 12, 2003 - 10:55 pm:

I think its fair to say theres not enough true Jattis in the world these days. Hard to find jatti whos virgin, well eduacted, got lofs of money and no siblings.

Also for some reason Sikh girls are becomign less fuller around the chest area, may i ask why? cunts.

Anyhow i think ill have to go back to the Punjab and find a Jatti there, is there anyway i can check out her freshness before i marry her, or could i ask for a refund later?

Those who are offended by what i wrote, well i dont care, ahahahhaha

P.S. just tell a girl back home in the Punjab u wana marry her, and the leggs come wide open.


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